Monday, October 16, 2017

A SAFE HOME FOR YOUR SMART PHold FRIENDS

Digital literacy is often seen in the limited sense of an individual’s ability to use and benefit from modern electronic gadgets today. However, there is also a need for people to know the true worth of the vast array of gadgets which are at offer. This is especially true for many of us who are used to selling our old wares to the local scraps buyer or the kabadiwala. In this age of smart gadgets where our mobile phones are lighter than our wrist watches and our laptops weigh less than...
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Wednesday, April 1, 2015

An Impetus to #StartANewLife

The biggest temptation to lie as children comes up owing to the dread of retribution from our parents, elders or other people in authority. Gradually with age, the propensity to lie grows stronger and stronger due to increasing fears. The sole reason of one’s inability to say the truth is due to the lack of confidence in facing the repercussions of saying the truth. In many ways, it is the elders who encourage this habit to lie by punishing excessively which in many ways discourages...
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Tuesday, March 31, 2015

Towards a more Inclusive #DigitalIndia

While the mid 18th century to the early 19th century period saw the rise of the Industrial revolution which transformed the way things were manufactured and produced, the mid 20th century to the present 21st century is undoubtedly the age of the Information & Communication Technology revolution where ICT has transformed the way humans think, act and live in the world today. However, despite...
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Monday, March 30, 2015

#Together with a friend in Mumbai

There sometimes arrive times when we are so troubled and bogged down that we do not want to get off our beds and want to sleep all day hugging our pillows close to our hearts. I had felt the same not many years ago when I arrived in Mumbai to pursue my bachelors in media studies. Far away from home, I had led myself into living a monotonous life where I had no friends and people to call my own. My college was 45 kms away and my pursuit for a qualifying graduate degree meant I...
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Saturday, November 1, 2014

In search of My God

As a growing up child, I was always forbidden from asking such questions as, “where is God and why should we worship him?” My mother, the only person who would give me a hearing would reassure me that their existed a superior omnipresent power who we all ought to worship for all the good things we enjoy in life. And indeed, for this reason I worshipped God (whenever the need arose, as most of us do) until sometime around the age of 10 when I started to suspect that probably praying...
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Thursday, October 30, 2014

Limits to using 'Technology'

My experience of staying without gadgets, telecommunication, and the World Wide Web after having gotten acquainted with all of them happened first when out on my field trip to the Vidarbha region of Maharashtra. The tribal dominated district of Gadchiroli which falls on the eastern corner of the state is a densely forested tribal district often known infamously as being the western end of the...
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Thursday, October 23, 2014

The Purpose of Education

“You don’t even have an ambition. You do not like to wear good clothes, aspire to wear a nice watch, or have a house and a car in the future. What is the point of your studying so much? There is no point in your reading so many books and wasting your time if you have no aim to succeed”, declared my aunt when delivering another one of her long sermons when discussing my future. Much irritated as...
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Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Celebrating Diwali, Deepavali and Kali Pujo

https://www.gharwalidiwali.com/     I come from a multi-lingual background where my mother is a Tamil and my father is a Bengali. Their distinct customs and rituals meant that every festival in our house was celebrated in a manner in which both their traditions were amalgamated in a way in which neither felt deprived over the other. But Diwali was an exception owing to its distinct...
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Monday, October 20, 2014

"Daddy"- The Birth of a Father [REVIEW]


In a world where fathers are becoming equally, if not more involved in the upbringing of their children, Tuhin Sinha’s new book ‘DADDY - The birth of a father’ is a must read for every new age dad.  Based primarily on his personal experience, the author adds anecdotes from the experiences of other fathers and includes professional pieces from renowned pediatricians and child psychologists. It comes as a first of its kind book in addressing the questions and anxieties of just born fathers.




Says Tuhin in his book, “If a woman can juggle responsibilities so beautifully, I don’t see why we should be left behind.” DADDY has a story to tell of how a man's inability to endure the physical pain of child-birth doesn't in any way stop him from being his wife’s pillar of support. Reading it indeed proves that sharing the responsibilities of parenting can be an amazing experience.

The lack of a Paternity leave in India for fathers means that a large part of the load of child care falls on the mother. However, there are various other ways in which a father can help to ensure the welfare of the new born.

The book is neatly divided into 6 Sections with each of them being divided into separate chapters. Every chapter ends with a ‘Things to Remember’ where the chief points of that chapter are summarized in bullet-pointers.

Beginning with helping one to decide on what the right time to become a parent is, the book goes on to explain what a man is to do right upon knowing that his wife is pregnant. It highlights the essentials that need to be ensured amid all the joy and delight of the good news.

Successive chapters help to understand how a man is to treat his wife during the course of 9 months of pregnancy. The various fears about birth related complications expecting parents often feel are dealt with in a thorough and comprehensive manner.

The author’s personal experiences during Labour Day in the hospital and the baby’s homecoming are interesting and in many ways an essential read. The boons and banes of the role played by the grandparents have been justly represented and are undeniable. The book deals with many anxieties that arise in the minds of first time fathers due to the lack of proper medical knowledge and shows how most of these fears are falsely based.

Also, rather than restricting his discussion to the role of a father alone, Tuhin additionally and interestingly discusses on the need for a father to work on his role of being a good husband as well. Reconnecting the lost love between a couple post child birth is important too. A happy family shall mean a healthy child.

A good part of the book is kept for discussing the issue of disciplining and when to know that parental indulgence is spoiling a child. Anxiety issues that arise in a child and other problems that can arise in a child’s mind are discussed with solutions in an expert take penned down by the renowned psychologist, Dr. Seema Hingorrany.

A chapter titled ‘Protecting your Baby’ highlights on the need for vaccination and the dos and don’ts to follow in the event of common illnesses. Another expert take is offered here by pediatric consultant and oncologist, Dr. Santanu Sen and pediatrician Dr. Ninad Hebbalkar.

The seventh and last section Fatherhood Across Generations is an interesting emotional account that the author writes about his relationship with his father. He further writes a 'Things I’d do differently' (as a father) column where he delineates how he wishes to bring his child up. I think this last part was a really informative column and something every father must take special note of, for as Dr. Hingorrany puts it “Health issues can be medically treated, but if behavioral issues are left unattended, they can leave a significant impact on the child's personality development which in turn impacts their success or failure in life.”

Simply put, Daddy is a compilation of narratives on fatherhood which adds up as a parenting guide/handbook. Illustrations on how to burp/bath/massage a child, are sure to bring a smile to every reader’s face while also being greatly instructive. The beauty with which the chapters have been woven together with the author’s personal experience along with those of many other fathers makes Daddy a pleasurable read. Tuhin A Sinha’s newest release is sure to strike a chord with every man who aspires to become a father.


This book is a PR sample but it has in no way affected my opinion on its content.
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Monday, August 18, 2014

Social Work education in India

Studying in one of the foremost and most prestigious (or so it’s called) institutes of Social Work for Rural Development in Maharashtra for the past one year has enabled me to structure my long held thoughts on education better. Education is no more a means to apply knowledge and develop thinking capacities. Today learning has been reduced to being just a medium to ensure one a secure financial...
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